Criando Magia - Em estar presente com o seu parceiro

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Nancy fala sobre tango sendo uma metáfora para a vida. Em tango, é importante para ambos os parceiros a aprender para realmente ouvir um ao outro. Em tango e na vida, ouvindo atentamente pode adicionar uma sensação de presentidade para a ligação entre parceiros.

É divertido.

Nome do Artista:
Manuel Barrueco
Título da música:
Tango Etude #1
Album Title:
Solo Piazzolla
Website de artista:
http://www.barrueco.com/

A partir do site do artista: Manuel Barrueco é reconhecido internacionalmente como um dos guitarristas mais importantes do nosso tempo. Sua arte original tem sido continuamente descrita como a de um instrumentista soberba e um músico superior e elegante, possuindo um som sedutor e incomuns presentes líricos .... Em 2007, Manuel Barrueco recebeu uma indicação ao Grammy de "Melhor Solista Instrumental Performance" por sua Solo Piazzolla, que foi a primeira gravação a ser lançado na coleção exclusiva Manuel Barrueco no Tonar Music.

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So, a lot of times, what happens is, as I'm teaching combinations, I'll tell people things. I'll say, for example...
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I'll say, "Do this". And then, I'll take them in, you know, whatever it is. Cut, cut, tap.
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Step, cross. Flick. Step, cut. Catch. Throw, touch. Whatever, long, long... Goes for a while.
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D: And, at the end of that, I say, "Got it? Good. Do."
N: No, you don't.
D: Yeah, I know. I do better than that.
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D: But...
N: He doesn't do that.
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But, what happens, is when you see people dance, they look like this.
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Ha-ha!
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N: Even though he doesn't do that, you do see this.
D: And I'm exaggerating.
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So, when we teach, just like in the videos, we show one little piece at a time.
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And we make sure people are comfortable doing it, before we move on.
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N: So, that was not just to himself.
D: OK, she's like: "say the right."
N: Yeah.
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But, even when we do that, if it's a long, involved combination, you see people doing it like this.
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I mean... So, the bottom line is when it pushes your limits, then you have to give all your attention to something.
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D: So, for example, you give all your attention to what you have to do to her.
N: The footwork. Right, to how you move...
D: To get her do what you want.
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And listen to the word choice: what you have to do to her.
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Right? So it stops being a participatory thing. It stops being communication.
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And it starts being, "Oh, I move my arms this way".
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Yes, that's right.
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And so, I want to say that half of this idea of being present with your partner is choosing smart things.
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It's hard to be present when you're doing the hardest thing you know.
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N: Yeah. If you're dancing socially, dance less than the hardest thing you know.
D: Dance way less than the hardest thing you know.
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And also, part of it... So, if you look at the touch chapter, a lot of it is in the spirit of the chapter on listening.
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And part of it is just being willing to look at someone. Right? So...
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D: To say, "Hi".
N: Hi.
D: So, for example, if she were here,
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There's a big difference between my looking at the camera and my looking at her.
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N: There certainly is.
D: You see that difference?
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And so, I want you to say, that sometimes, it's OK to look... You don't always have to have your gaze averted
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As you feel so intensely passionately.
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Sometimes, you can... Feel it intensely passionately at your partner too.
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Or not. But I want you to realize there's a person there.
Série:
Criando Magia
Etiquetas:
Conexão, Técnica, Romance, Segredos Místicos
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