We say this a few times, but you can make essence what you want. Often, we'll have this pull of coming closer and pulling less close (not exactly away) and that's something we think is a nice thing in freno. We mean where the pull of the leader's hips takes him more towards her as the pivot creates more distance. Her hips are more away while her upper body stays to him.

Additionally, the leader can decrease the physical distance by shifting weight to his freno-ing leg, which is a nice effect.