Connection - Creating Chemistry Through Distance
One thing David did remember to think to say is that it looks a lot better if you have good posture and a "friendly" face. If you do the things in this chapter with bad posture and a smirk on your face, then it's extremely creepy rather than being extremely filled with chemistry.
The difference that posture can have in changing the message, when all other things are the same, is really rather remarkable. Maybe we'll film another video about it.
- Artist Name:
- QTango
- Song Title:
- 9 de Julio
- Album Title:
- It Takes Q To Tango
- Artist Website:
- http://www.qtango.com/
(From the website): Created in July, 2009 by Erskine Maytorena, a third generation tango musician and opera singer, QTANGO performs authentic Argentine tango arrangements as often as two to three times a week throughout the Southwest for tango dancers and listeners.
- 0:00 Intro - dispelling 2 myths
- 0:37 Closeness doesn't necessarily equal chemistry
- 0:48 It's about the consciousness of the distance
- 1:11 People tend to wimp out
- 1:46 Take your time
- 2:30 Try it - remember not too fast
- 3:15 You can keep the psychological distance constant
- 4:00 It's about the direction of your energy
- 4:50 Summary of the 3 principles
- 5:30 The feeling is radically different depending upon how you got there
