Adaptándose a su pareja - El seguidor se adelanta a mi guía

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Para todos, tienen que dar la mitad de sí mismo para satisfacer las necesidades de su compañero.

Un hombre estaba andando en su Harley a lo largo de una playa de California cuando de repente se nublo el cielo y en voz estridente el Señor dijo: “Porque haz intentado ser fiel a mí en todos los sentidos, te concederé un deseo”.'

El motociclista estaciono y dijo, “Construye un puente hasta Hawái para que pueda conducir hasta allí cada vez que lo desee”.

El Señor dijo: “tu pedido es materialista, piensa en los enormes desafíos de este tipo de proyecto, los pilares del puente tendrían que construirse en el fondo del Océano Pacifico y la cantidad de hormigón y acero que ello demandara! Agotara numerosos recursos naturales. Puedo hacerlo, pero es difícil para mí justificar tu deseo por algo tan mundano. Tómate un poco más de tiempo y piensa en algo que realmente pueda ayudar a la humanidad”

El motociclista pensó por un largo rato.

Finalmente dijo: “ok, deseo que yo y todos los hombres podamos entender a nuestras esposas, quiero saber cómo se siente por dentro, lo que piensa cuando me somete al silencio, porque llora, lo que quiere decir cuando dice ‘nada’ y como puedo hacer que una mujer se sienta realmente feliz”

Y el Señor respondió: “¿quieres dos o cuatro carriles en el puente?”.

Nombre del artista:
Jaime Wilensky
Título de la canción:
Aquella Noche
Título del álbum:
Tango Nuevo 2

(De Latinpulsemusic.com): Se trata de un nuevo tango "electrificado" producido y con arreglos de Jaime Wilensky. Aquella Noche es un tango con un sonido y temática gótica.

00:04
This is a fun one, for me, every time we teach it.
00:08
Because it's about the woman, kind of, rushing away from the lead. And just doing the step, 'cause she knows what the step is,
00:14
Instead of letting the man lead them both into it. And I'm really good at that.
00:19
D: She's good at doing the right, by the way.
N: Thank you.
D: As well.
00:24
So, we're going to do... I'll let her do the wrong. On me, I'll let myself do it.
00:28
So, what it is, is I figure out what he wants. And then, I go do it.
00:34
D: You are, you have a rare gift.
N: I feel, I think so, too. Yeah, you study to learn how to do that.
00:39
So, what I do first... Actually, if we do it to this camera...
00:44
I become insanely still.
00:46
D: Right? So, if she's all jittery and move-y... Be jittery and move-y.
N: Oh, this is a really cool technique. I've used it as a leader, too.
00:56
It's just mesmerizing.
00:59
And so, I become incredibly still...in a really active way. And that stillness causes her to start to listen.
01:06
And then, he does this incredibly slow, beautiful weight shift. With a mind-meld.
01:13
And, at some point, the woman, whatever she's doing or thinking about,
01:16
Will realize something cool is going on, and start listening to that instead.
01:20
And, as soon as she starts listening to that - he's got her. For a little while.
01:23
Yeah, for a little while. Before she runs off again.
01:26
Also, as we do this... There's the sense that I'll hold her tighter.
01:44
And I'll stop. So, she has to stop moving.
01:48
So i'll be very convicted, full of conviction. And then I'll go...and I'll stop.
01:52
And then I'll go, maybe, to here. And then, I'll brace myself. Right?
01:55
So, I really have... I'm planting myself a little bit back, with the left foot forward. So, I can, actually, lever against.
02:01
So, if she throws herself back, I can just be here like a rock. And then, go through.
02:07
And so, eventually, if you have all of these coping mechanisms, you can...
02:11
N: She figures it out.
D: Yeah.
N: Just listening.
02:13
Well, not just that. If you keep the pace slow enough, then, also, that tends to encourage people to listen.